Heyy little Girl!! it's better to be ignorant & remain grounded. Ignorance keeps us closer to facts which matter most in our day to day life. It keeps us connected to real life challenges & also helps in tackling the problem. Ignorance keeps us connected to our own people who remain or stays in our life for some purpose. They always keep changing the number one killers because of new and improved technology and medicine. But there’s one number one killer that can’t be prescribed too…and that is ignorance. First of all, you should part yourself from the ignorant because ignorance is like a contagious disease. Keep your mind open to different ideas, but never change what your beliefs or morality without first backing up the new “concept” you’ve heard about.

I believe in everyday miracles—the little things that most people take for granted that are really some of the most beautiful and make life worth living. Likewise, I believe that if we slow down and pay attention to the people and things around us, we will see the intricate beauty beyond the surface. I can see the miracle in a sunny day when the sky is deep blue, the clouds are like huge tufts of cotton, and you can visibly see the rays of sunshine gleaming down from above. I believe that small things like a smile can change the world and a hug can heal many of life’s hurts; that deep down most people are good and are willing to help you if you ask them. Bentley’s snowflakes remind me of the ephemeral quality of life. Most of the time I get so caught up in the fast pace of work, school, and other activities that I forget to slow down and really look around me at the little things that are the most important. I used to have a best friend. We had everything in common: the same sense of humor, same taste in music, sometimes even the same thoughts. We were inseparable. Then high school came and we began to drift apart.

It hurt me so much and I made no secret of the impact this failing friendship was having on me. My other friends offered words of comfort and sympathy, but I didn’t listen. I was too caught up in my emotions to believe that maybe this all had happened for a reason. We were fourteen years old. We were changing. I just spent too long refusing to accept it. I, being the person I am, overanalyzed all of this, wondering why things went wrong. I don’t want to do this anymore. Everything does happen for a reason, whether we choose to believe it or not. Things change. People change. I’m finally beginning to understand this. Life really is too brief to not accept what is thrown at you. Although I say this, I would also be the first person to tell you that I don’t always accept and get over things. What you do and what you believe can be two very different things. I worry. I over-think. I let negativity from my family, my friends, and myself bring me down. It’s hard to get over this. The process of writing this essay helped me to discover a lot that I’ve been hiding even from myself. I want to stop doing what I’ve told myself repeatedly not to do: waste away before I ever really get a chance to start living it.I believe in smiling. I believe in genuine, straight from the heart, with eye-contact, smiles. I believe smiles can change lives.True story: Boy smiles at girl.

Girl smiles at boy. They fall in love. It started with a smile. I believe smiles are an integral component within the whimsical nature of each person’s path through life. Smiles communicate an openness and receptiveness of personality that may result in unexpected meetings.Acknowledgement of another with a smile can be powerful. Even if a smile does not have a direct observable impact on that individual, your small gesture may mean more to them than you know. Smiles usually make everyone’s day more pleasant. So smile!

There is a ‘never’ and ‘always’ that everybody should know. Never judge anybody. Always try to understand the reason why people act a certain way and how situations in life has changed them. I say this, because it’ll come in handy in life. Try to forgive those who hurt you in any way. And be patient to those who haven’t forgiven you yet. Don’t be ignorant and think that you never hurt anybody with what you may have said or done, and think before you speak. If you have nothing good to say, then don’t speak. The reason is because you never know what life might throw to you and what situations you could be faced with.Ignorance may lead you to think that every body is like you. That everybody knows their life is worth it and that they have the ability to think and act rationally. The truth is that no one person thinks exactly the way another one does. No one person has had the same beautiful and dreadful experiences of another and much less the same reactions.

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-CHARU

Thank You for being You!!A woman is the full circle. Within her is the power to create, nurture and transform. The question isn't who's going to let me; it's who is going to stop me? The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." "When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us."

"Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that's the one that is going to require the most from you. Power is not given to you. You have to take it. Keep your face to the sunshine and say Hey Hello!! lam here to fight. I raise up my voice, not so I can shout, but so that those without a voice can be heard... we cannot succeed when half of us are held back.

A woman with a voice is by definition a strong woman. But the search to find that voice can be remarkably difficult.Feminism isn't about making women strong. Women are already strong. It's about changing the way the world perceives that strength. A feminist is anyone who recognizes the equality and full humanity of women and men.If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. So, Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness.Never be limited by other people's limited imaginations. Cinderella never asked for a prince. She asked for a night off and a dress. You are bold, beautiful, compassionate and caring the world will be boring and lifeless without a woman.

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Hey solitary girl! Listen, Rough patch, a bad day, a major setback. Sometimes, it seems like one thing goes wrong after another. And another, and another.Sometimes an unexpected challenge or an obstacle might come your way, and you find yourself stressing out, worrying and not knowing what to do. And, some days, you just have nothing. Zero motivation, no creativity. All of a sudden, you’re being plagued with self-doubt

◇You think you have to be strong all the time.

◇You think you’re not allowed to cry, to admit that you’re not okay

◇You feel insecure at times.

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This is something that I’ve been struggling with for the last couple of days. I don’t know if these strange and sudden changes in my mood are part of the grieving process , I don’t know if things will ever go back to the way they used to be. What I do know, is that admitting that I’m not doing too well, even to myself, wasn’t easy.

Why?

Why do we always feel the need to be strong? Why do we feel guilty when taking a time-out? I was overwhelmed with such guilt. How can I sit here and cry and feel sorry for myself, when I have some much to be grateful for? There’s so much work I need to get done, I don’t see anyone else making excuses for themselves.

THE LITTLE GIRL IS FEELING UNINSPIRED

Know that it’s okay. It’s okay to not be okay. Don’t resist feeling “bad” just because it seems like you’re the only one who feels lonely, or lost or unmotivated- you’re not. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing and remember that we all know what it’s like to “not be okay” even if most of us don’t talk about it. All those feelings are normal, we all go through this sometimes. Is it a fun place to be? Fuck no. But it doesn’t last forever.

Whenever I’m feeling like this, I get paralyzed with self-doubt. “Oh God, I write about mindfulness and being happy and staying present and here I am, sitting on my bathroom floor, crying, because I had a bad day, wtf is wrong with me?!” In moments like this, I feel almost as if my authenticity is being compromised. It’s just a confusing place to be.

If there’s one thing that I’ve learned during the last couple of days though, it’s that the more you resist feeling “bad”, the worse you’ll feel. Yes, you have to keep trying to get better, but don’t force it- allow yourself to heal and learn to be patient with yourself. Think of those bad days, like a passing cloud- you can’t see the sun, but you know it’s there. You know that eventually, it will come out.

It’s okay to not be okay. You’re allowed to change your mind, to take a break or leave a situation you don’t feel comfortable in. There’s no need to blame yourself for any of those things just like there’s no need to feel bad about… feeling bad.We should all be allowed to fall apart sometimes so that we can find ourselves all over again

-CHARU

saw the title In the Darkness and being the person you , thought “Hey, In the Darkness, sounds like it’s about depression, I can totally relate!” but here the solitary girl expresses her emotions and attarction towards the dark.

The darkness is a space which is simultaneously frightening yet captivating through its mysterious beauty. The little girl fears and wonder about the creatures that hide away in the cracks, lurking in the shadows waiting to attack. As she grows and comes to understand fear, the monsters in the closet may fade, while she wander the street at night become all the more real. Darkness is associated with illusions of imminent danger and potential threats in the mind of the collective consciousness..

"Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody"

The solitary girl explains her darkmare👀 Darkness. It’s everywhere. It consumes me. Light. A small sliver of light shines upon an eerie face, yet I still can’t quite make it out. The faces body moves toward me. Poke, Something sharp stabs through the layers of my skin. It goes deep. Plunging into my soul. Tired. My eyelids grow heavy and the world blurs. Darkness. I awake. My eyelids, still heavy, struggle to open. Finally they do. They open to an unknown world. A world I have not seen before. Four stone walls surround me.

No windows. It’s crystals illuminate the room. Beneath me lies pillows. Large soft pillows. There is one pillow for every color of the rainbow. Covering the floor around me is white carpet with splotches of red in various locations. Looking back at the stone walls I notice the paintings. Zoo animals and children all playing together. In the center of the wall to the left of me is a door. Overall the room is pleasant, but something isn’t right. I stand up and walk over to the door. It’s unlocked. Mildly surprised I step away, scared of what might await me on the other side. I wait a few seconds. After a few seconds, turn into minutes, I realize that I can no longer stand this room. The odd feeling is so overwhelming it’s almost sickening. I grip the door knob. It’s cold. So cold that I realize how hot the rest of the room is and how sweaty I am. I turn the cold knob and push. I open the door carefully only to find another room.

This room practically mirrors the other one except for one exceptions. In place of the pillows is a table with two chairs and two platters upon the top of it. Growing curious, I decided to look under the platters. To my horror, I found two eyeballs and a heart. I screamed. They couldn’t be real could they? I stumbled away from the table. The door to the room slammed shut. The slam made the whole room shake. Or maybe that was just me. I lifted up one of my hands. It was trembling uncontrollably. All of a sudden, I wokeup and it was a bundle of nightmare.

Strange, "I thought, how you can be living your dreams and your nightmares at the very same time

A girl is always being alone and put herself in darkness proves the situation. Still she loves to be in dark and alone instead of spending time with fake people.

Being in dark and worst nightmare is far better."LIFE IS ONE LONG STUGGLE IN DARK" I'll be fine Alone in my corner The darkness comes back Say, I am here again!! Into that darkness I would....ooohh so gladly go With you beside me!!

-CHARU

Feeling a bit low on positivity and hope!

Why soo😇😇

“If you wish to live to see better days, then you must endure the bad days.”

Alone, All my emotions all pertained to this word, being neglected because I was different from others. My prickly exterior caused people to overlook me. And my friends, let's just say I didn’t have any. I never had an intention to hurt anyone, but this was who I was and the reason for my loneliness. As days, months, even years passed, people ignored the true beauty in me. I was constantly left sitting alone in the cold, damp corner with no one to interact with. This was my fate. My life was basically forlorn. I was going to be alone, forever.

But on pretty day, The feeling of loneliness was fading away, and I felt as if I finally had someone who cared about me. Rather than judging my current deamor like the rest of the people. Isn't she wrong?? Was her longing is acceptable??

Ohh my little girl!!!!

No one in this earth is perfect but there is always room for improvement. We may encounter with the several people in life who hate us and dislike us. It is easy to hate people instead of loving them. If we hate them back, life will be ruined and relationship ends in the edge. Instead think of that there are millions of new things to be learned and we can find always a new and fresh ideas that is generated from human mind every day. Regardless of how good and precious our life is now but we can still make it better or more precious for tomorrow. No matter what love, joy and fulfillment we have now but there is alway a way and room from improvement and to make it better or more charming for tomorrow.

Yesterday is already gone and we can’t make any changes for that, but we can make our today more beautiful, more meaningful, more productive than yesterday. And we can always have an opportunity to make our tomorrow even better than today. Each moment could be an opportunity if we can grab that which could create a new value in life. We can count our each day as of our pile of life experience. Whatever the moment we have been spending, we have to keep in mind that there is always a better day ahead and better things on the way to come.That give the values and meaning of life and making us more comfortable, more happier, nicer and better than what we are deserving nowadays. Let’s grab them maintaining our core habit of life.

HOPE, I am grateful to convey , that sometimes (not always), on those days when I am overwhelmed by everything not yet done and all that has gone wrong, when the odds against me are stacked as high as the unwashed dishes in the kitchen sink, I haven’t a prayer of turning things around, it is then that hope has a way of knocking on the door and walking right in. If I’m lucky, it is then, when I need it, that hope comes unbidden, with an energy and determination beyond anything I could imagine.

Of course, there are also times when hope fails to show up, and I need to send out a search party just when I am least equipped to organize one. But for now, we might begin our reflections on hope by considering how surprisingly common place it can be when we open our eyes to its many forms. Yet the poor girl has so many questions like Where do you see hope? What does it look like, and what is it doing?

Unfortunately, hope doesn’t always show up when you need it. Hope sometimes vanishes too. when we are facing personal difficulties, We can simply run out of hope.When this happens, we might need to just sit and think and motivate ourselves and gain hope to proceed future. No one else is going to help you out of it. It is you who come back stronger.

“I think it's a mistake to ever look for hope outside of one's self"

-CHARU

Every person in this world has a dream which they want to fulfill in their life. Not everything you think can be your dream. Some things fascinate you in your childhood when you grow up. However, your dream plays an important role in your life. Now let's hear what a solitary girl's dream is. Growing up, I always had bigger dreams. I was a perfect description of the little girl that wanted everything. I wanted to be a princess wearing colourful dresses, staying in a beautiful castle with hundreds of maids. I also dreamt of having the most fanciest wedding a little girl could dream of.

As I grew older, I came out of all those fancies and dramatic dreams and learnt how reality works.Every day, I like to take some time aside from my responsibilities to think about my dreams and all the goals I want to achieve. My dream is to become a successful woman in front of my haters.

Firstly, only having a dream won't help me. I must also work towards the achievement of my dream. But in the process of working on it, I have some fears too. Since I want a successful career, I make myself more conscious of the things which I do. To live in my specific dream, I need to face and move on in certain places like health issues, healthy relationships, mental illness etc.

DREAM , FEAR AND HEALTH ISSUES

When I was a teenager, I was not so concerned about my health. But now I realize the importance of having good health. Good health is not attained only by having proper diet control, but through proper meditation and yoga also. I hope to become fit and healthy which will make me strong enough to achieve my dream.

DREAM , FEAR AND RELATIONSHIP

Even though I have gone through so many struggles in relationships, what I learned is neither a good relationship nor a person should understand the right situation and move forward in that specific way. A healthy relationship is when the individual accepts their partner with complete trust and loyalty. Having a good relationship also helps to achieve the dream.

Lastly, thinking only about achieving a dream and career but running away from fears doesn't help to achieve success in life. Face and overcome fears and move forward positively for a successful life ahead.

However, I have now found the solitary girl once again, but now the solitary girl with big dreams has grown just a little bit bigger😇

-CHARU

The IRON LADY who faced many struggles in life but never regretted to make her children happy. Yess... she is my mom, it's her 41st birthday today.

My small appreciation note for her!! Firstly, wishing you a very happy birthday Maa❤️ because, I remember your birthday there is no end to all ur hurts and all my regrets. May be this is life way of showing, how much you mean to us. May the joy that you have spread in the past come back to you on this day. You're older than yesterday but you're younger than tomorrow.

Hapy birthday Ammu Maa.. May every dream of urs come true.. and yeahh... I know your dream is to see our success right....?? Fingers crossed🤞... everything will happen for sure. We ill surely make you proud..

FLASH BACK!!

She got married when she was 18 yrs old. Till thn, she faced soo many problems and sacrificed her unhappy life in sake of her children. She never failed to motivate us and never stopped supporting us. Though her marriage life was not proper, she was not having a happy life still she never failed to take care of us (me and my bro) with her full efforts, she strengthen us in our academics and gave a great support in our career. She gave soo much freedom and made us to lead her life.. till now she does everything only to make us happy and to have a beautiful life.

The lady behind all my success and my well wisher and my best friend. I inspire her a lot and I also follow her path. On this birthday of her's I promise her to make her proud as in all possible ways I can. I will surely make you proud by having a great career. You will always be my best friend 💯 forever...

Once again I wish you a very happy birthday a head... love you maa❤️